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Sharing without shame

Sharing without shame

Sharing without shame

There are so many expressions about sharing:


  • A problem shared is a problem halved.
  • Sharing is caring.
  • We are all in it together.
  • Two heads are better than one.


The question is why don't people share?


  • Shame 
  • embarrassment
  • Guilt
  • Not feeling worthy
  • Once bitten twice shy


There are many reasons and as it is said we are all unique.


When the webpage is full

There are so many expressions about sharing:


  • A problem shared is a problem halved.
  • Sharing is caring.
  • We are all in it together.
  • Two heads are better than one.


The question is why don't people share?


  • Shame 
  • embarrassment
  • Guilt
  • Not feeling worthy
  • Once bitten twice shy


There are many reasons and as it is said we are all unique.


When the webpage is fully operating, I'd like people to share the page with as many people as possible. It could be family, friends, work colleagues or a person in the street.


Some people will realise that if I tell ten people about this site, then those people go on and tell ten more and so on. We can reach lots of victims and offenders, we can direct them to other charities to get help or just talk more openly about the issues surrounding sexual abuse. 


Through other platforms, the idea is to show people to here, when I was offending, I watched videos of girls on social media apps like TikTok, Instagram and there are many more. When you read some of the comments that people make, it is clear that some parts of society are broken.


The internet is deemed as safe because of the anonymity, I could be a Nigel or Olivia. I could be from Kent or Kentucky. Am I 48, was I born in 48 or do I just like the number.




Working together

Sharing without shame

Sharing without shame

There are many parts to a puzzle, the pieces may symbolise; 


  • Different charities that can help people with the issues that they face.
  • Different skills that people have to contribute to a team effort.
  • Friendships
  • Lots of separate people that have a similar goal.


Whatever they represent, in the end, a puzzle is a lot stronger when it is complete

There are many parts to a puzzle, the pieces may symbolise; 


  • Different charities that can help people with the issues that they face.
  • Different skills that people have to contribute to a team effort.
  • Friendships
  • Lots of separate people that have a similar goal.


Whatever they represent, in the end, a puzzle is a lot stronger when it is complete.


Relationships between offenders and victims are very complicated and we do not have one solution for every situation but by working as a team we can offer several solutions to different problems.


If you are another charity you can offer your links here to reach people in need.


 If you are a concerned parent, teacher, friend, victim or  offender. You can share this page or be inspired to share your story, so others can connect and realise that they are not alone. 

A brighter future

Sharing without shame

A brighter future

In a world that realises that not everything is perfect but could be better. Victims are listened to at a younger age without prejudice and offered support.


The future will be brighter because there will be less problematic behaviours;


  • Alcohol abuse
  • Drug addiction
  • Gambling
  • Sex

these are the main ones mentioned in my courses but since talking to

In a world that realises that not everything is perfect but could be better. Victims are listened to at a younger age without prejudice and offered support.


The future will be brighter because there will be less problematic behaviours;


  • Alcohol abuse
  • Drug addiction
  • Gambling
  • Sex

these are the main ones mentioned in my courses but since talking to other people, I have become aware of so many more.


By loving/caring for one another we can make this world a better place.  




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If you feel that you would like to help financially to help with the issues raised on this page, you can donate to any of the useful links at the foot of the page.

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