When you are talking about and sharing your life's experiences, it is important to trust one another. I have shared some of my troublesome parts of my life, under a simple name to help others begin to understand their own thoughts and behaviours.
We are all on our own journeys and life can be difficult at the best of times with the pressure of what others think, if you contact me on chat, I'll respect your privacy, you can use a different name, you only have to tell me what you are comfortable in letting me know but I promise that I won't divulge your information. I do not have the right to judge other's decisions, we all make bad choices but we can not let that be the thing that defines us, it is what you do to rectify those choices.